The row began with one thing minor: ‘Edu’ was laughing at one thing on his telephone however refused to indicate it to his girlfriend ‘Ali’. She bought upset and so they began arguing. Offended phrases changed into shouting and insults and out of the blue a livid ‘Edu’ grabs her telephone and hurls it to the classroom flooring the place it shatters, the violent gesture stunning the group of watching youngsters. The confrontation between the 2 characters, performed by actors, is a part of a play by Teatro Que Cura (The Therapeutic Theatre) visiting a highschool within the city of Parla close to Madrid to boost consciousness about home violence.
November 25 is Worldwide Day for the Elimination of Violence Towards Girls and in Spain, which handed Europe’s first regulation towards it in 2004, consultants agree schooling is essential to lowering the issue. In Might, official figures confirmed gender violence was rising quickest among the many under-18s, with the variety of feminine victims up almost 30 p.c from 514 in 2020 to 661 in 2021. It was unclear if this was resulting from a rise in violence or an increase within the variety of incidents reported.
The play at El Olivo highschool begins with the couple preparing for his or her first date, Edu wining over the 15- and 16-year-olds with a humorous monologue worrying over his seems, what to put on and his probabilities of getting laid. However the laughter dies as their relationship develops-and the youngsters are inspired to mirror on their arguments and what they’d do otherwise. “The intention is to assist adolescents construct relationships based mostly on equality and stop home violence,” says Susana Martin Cuezva, a therapist who directs Teatro que Cura and moderates the discussions. “The concept is that the scholars expertise a state of affairs of pressure or battle within the right here and now and that they resolve it differently to how the actors are approaching it, which is at all times by way of violence.”
‘Fairly real looking’
“It’s good to indicate it like this. For those who see it on the street, it’s only a couple preventing. However seeing it on this context you understand it’s truly violence and that you are able to do one thing about it,” says 15-year-old Patricia Garcia. Because the plot develops, the viewers is invited to voice their ideas on to Edu or Ali, with every actor improvising a response. “I misplaced my head, I’m probably not like that,” Edu explains to a scholar after the phone-smashing incident.
“Yeah proper. First, give me some house and don’t attempt to intimidate me,” she says calmly. As he begins arguing, she walks off-to cheers and applause from the scholars. What affected Mario Carmona, 16, most was the insults and the pushing and shoving. “Sadly, it was fairly real looking, and it occurs extra usually than you’d count on,” he advised AFP. “It’s not simple to know what’s occurring regardless that these arguments are fairly regular. However it’s good to have somebody to help you, who may give you a wake-up name if issues get a bit out of hand.”
Arrange in 2017, Teatro que Cura makes use of interactive theatre to immerse teenagers in dramatised eventualities of inequality and violence to boost consciousness about battle and gender-based violence. Over the previous 5 years, they’ve labored with some 9,000 youngsters aged 14-19, principally within the Madrid area. Research present schooling is essential, with a 2021 Spanish authorities report discovering intercourse schooling lessons targeted on equality and violence “cut back the chance of resorting to gender-based violence in boys, and of struggling it in women”.
‘Detecting circumstances of threat’
“Adolescents who’re taught about gender-based violence are at much less threat,” instructional psychologist Maria Jose Diaz-Aguado advised El Pais newspaper. “For those who get this form of schooling in school, you possibly can turn out to be conscious of such issues a lot earlier,” agreed 16-year-old Maryam Calderon. Silvia Serrano Martin, El Olivo’s faculty psychologist, stated the periods had been very efficient. “It’s actually helped increase consciousness about home violence as a result of seeing it in such an experiential means reaches them extra immediately,” she advised AFP.
“This can be a helpful prevention instrument but it surely’s additionally good for detecting circumstances of threat.” Typically college students come ahead to privately share their experiences, which in some circumstances has concerned conditions of “actual urgency,” Susana Martin Cuezva says. “As soon as a boy got here to speak to the actor and stated he recognized with Edu, that he was beginning to be violent along with his accomplice. He was in tears and advised us he wanted assist and didn’t need to repeat what was occurring at dwelling,” she stated.
The case was instantly referred to a regional gender violence unit. “I’ve realized I must put myself first,” 15-year-old Garcia advised AFP when requested what she had taken from the session. “If a relationship is beginning to turn out to be aggressive, you must stroll away on your personal good.” – AFP